Denise Aden from Quad Cities Counseling explains how to prepare for the holidays when difficult family members are involved. She recommends thinking of conversation topics in advance that people enjoy that won't provoke trouble. If an awkward question or topic is brought up, a good retort is, "That's a subject for another day." Then change the subject. For people without family, Denise recommends reaching out to others in some way, even in small ways, like taking cookies to a nursing home or your neighbor. Take advantage of time alone by doing something you've always meant to do but never had the time, like a trip you've wanted to take.